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Synchronized Cowboy-Style Group Sex in a Gym and The Noises Asian Women Make in Orgasm

January 16, 2012
Hello Operator
two questions if you are not too busy packing for your migration to San Dildo:
after a long hard night (not like that) at the group home, i must confess that i sometimes come home and go onto the russian counterfeit of facebook which is far racier than facebook and yet much less skankier than myspace. i if am in a sub-appropriate mood i go to some groups on that site which feature sub-porn photos and videos, most of which are either artful or truly interesting in some way. the names of the groups speak to the irony of which europe is known for – groups such as
“pray for sex” …. and
“drink for your health, have sex for virginity”.
so today i was unwinding, just perusing the the erotica when i saw this little video of asian couples in a gym – hundreds of them – all doing it cowboy style in near synchronicity. So dear operator, i come from an individualistic culture that values privacy and modesty to the extent that it would be highly unusual to see a gym full of Nebraskans sharing the moment. Sure, i understand that asia is more collectivist, but are there other explanations as to this phenom? Lastly, what is with that annoying cry-baby sound that only asian women make when they are ostensibly experiencing pleasure? is it to make the man feel more dominant, or are they not culturally permitted to experience and thus express pleasure. these questions have been on my mind for some time. Now i need to sleep, but these riddles have me twitterpated and restless. thank you for taking my call.
ps ……IS IT OK…. for me to organize such an event at the Adams center? I mean if it is private and by invitation or membership etc, then it’s not public sex, right?
or maybe as a way to stretch during the intermission of S.I.P. everyone is already on the blankets, pravda? maybe have a separate family night – sans the frisky business.
I think billy shakespeare himself would find it to be a kick in the pantaloons.
ok, must cacao now.
Regards,
SnapCracklePop

Dear SnapCracklePop,

Fascinating, isnt is, that Russia, a nation Americans see as oppressive and dark, supports a more openly sexual “Facebook”. America, the land of the free, quite in contrast to Russia’s sexy social networking sites, is actually considering passing SOPA and PIPA (Stop Online Piracy Act and the Protecting Children from Internet Pornography Act). SOPA/PIPA are bills in Congress that allow the government to snoop on your computer, gather your information (name, addresses, credit card information ect) without a subpoena . All this in that name of making sure you are not a pedophile. These bill infringe on our rights and will make any porn watching habits dangerous. Read more here-http://www.zdnet.com/blog/violetblue/how-the-new-8216protecting-children-bill-puts-you-at-risk/590

Sign a letter to your congresspeople here- https://wfc2.wiredforchange.com/o/9042/p/dia/action/public/?action_KEY=8175

Now that that political rant is over on to group sex in Asia!

I guarantee you that Nebraskans are having wild raging group sex just like the Asians. However, they do not (cannot) put it on Facebook. I am not well versed in Asian cultures so I do not want to make any unfounded assumptions about their culture. I do know that certain things that Americans see as private or kinky do not fall under the same categories in some Asian cultures. For example, in Japan there are vending machine with pornographic films next to vending machines of “used” girl’s underwear [3]. Not everyone, certainly not the government, likes these vending machines, but they do, none the less, exist in the open. Little of American sexuality exists in the open to quiet the same extent. We are forever the descendants of Puritans.

However, despite our inheritance of prudishness, a strong kink community thrives in America. The kinksters have banned to together in support and appreciation for each other. Fetlife.com is a huge social networking site for those with kinks. Included in this, is the desire for synchronized cowboy-style gym sex. (By the way. There is something wrong with gym sex. All that comes to my mind is the smells of the football players’ locker-rooms and the cesspool of germs inhabiting the gym equipment. Ick!) In Missoula, MT, there is a group/community for those interested in polyamory or non-monogamy. They have monthly potlucks and mingle with other polyamorous people. No sex is had at these events but it is a way to network with people who share that lifestyle or sexual preference. If you are interested check out http://www.polytana.fish-god.com/about/

Dr. Betty Dodson is the “Mother of Masturbation”. For 25 years, she ran workshops to encourage people to masturbate. The “BodySex Workshops” consisted of a dozen people masturbating in a circle. There was a genital show and tell and erotic recess[2] . Like grade school but sexier. Her work encourages self-awareness, self-love and healing. While this is much different in tone than the clip you are talking about, I think it shows a desire for sex to come out of the closet.

Similarly, The Annual Synchronized Global Orgasm for Peace[1], is a movement to encourage positive sex and bring well-being to the human population. Imagine the entire world cumming at the exact same moment! I wonder if we could literally rock the world!

As for the noises made by Asian women during sex. These noises are entirely culture bound. While they may feel instinctual and raw, they are in fact influenced by what we experience. As I said before, I am not terribly familiar with Asian culture. However, I do think that the women and men are allowed to feel pleasure. It seems to me that their gender roles are different than America’s, and they enjoy playing with the dom/sub factors in gender. This does not have to be a negative thing, as so many feminists are quick to conclude.

There is nothing wrong with organizing a group sex event. I would encourage you to not do it in the university’s event center. Find some place sexier. A historic ballroom perhaps? I like the idea of erotic Montana Shakespeare in the Parks. Shakespeare was one dirty old man anyway. A Midsummernight’s Dream is filled with vanilla sex, group sex, nature sex, fairy sex, and don’t forget bestiality . It seems fitting to let the audience participate!

I know much of this only slightly relates to your question but I hope it was helpful or at least interesting. Thank you for your question!

Love,

The Sexual Operator

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